Pope Francis sorry for upsetting abuse victims

Pope Francis speaks to journalists aboard his flight to Italy at the end of his trip to South America, 22 January 2018Pope Francis has apologised for remarks he made last week in Chile defending a bishop accused of covering up sexual abuse.
He said he realised his words hurt many, but repeated his belief that Chilean Bishop Juan Barros was innocent.
Francis was speaking to journalists on board a plane flying back to Rome.
Last week, he had said that victims who had accused Bishop Barros were committing slander.
The Pope was openly criticised by Cardinal Sean O'Malley of Boston, who said he left victims of sexual abuse committed by priests feeling abandoned.
"I apologise to them if I hurt them without realising it, but it was a wound that I inflicted without meaning to," said the Pope on Monday, as quoted by Reuters news agency. "It pains me very much."
Bishop Barros has not been accused of abuse, but of being present when another priest, Fernando Karadima, molested young boys.
When questioned by a Chilean journalist on Thursday, the Argentine pontiff had said: "The day they bring me proof against Bishop Barros, then I will speak. There is not a single piece of proof against him. Everything is slander. Is this clear?"
This prompted some of Karadima's victims to hold a press conference where they said it was "offensive and unacceptable to say that we need to provide concrete evidence".
On Monday, the Pope said he regretted using the word "proof", saying he realised that it came off as a slap in the face.
"There are lots of abused people who cannot show proof. They don't have it. Or they have it but they keep it to themselves, suffering in silence," he said.
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Woooooow look at this woman she don't care

This is how man suffers from women with big back when the look on them. women walks while their special bodies vibrating as if they don't have bones.
It's a time boys suffers alot from girls
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Reasons Why Guys Are Obsessed With Your Behind


Guys love girls in jeans, but believe it or not, are a little particular with what they like. While women love the look of long and lean, men aren’t always as appreciative. They prefer something to hold up those jeans so there is a nice roundness to them. A plump apple bottom tucked away in light denim is jaw dropping for many guys because, well, it just looks so good. A flat ass in jeans simply can’t hold up. Jeans tend to sag and that’s a no no when it comes to guys scoping it out. They want a woman to have a butt that can hug those jeans perfectly without any droopy material left behind.
There’s something sort of sacred about butts. Men know they aren’t supposed to go there – that the butt is usually off limits – so it makes it much more attractive. Things you’re not usually supposed to have always are, right? And men find this to be true especially in the bedroom. They’re pretty much obsessed with doing it from behind because it’s sort of forbidden – even if many are doing it nowadays. But this doesn’t just work for that, it goes for all sex. A nice butt provides some killer sexual fantasies leading up to the actual act, and hitting it from behind is something just about any guy craves.
Sure, boobs are usually the first thing that catches a guy’s eye the minute you walk by, but that’s not everything. After a guy has fully checked out your chest, he usually moves onto scoping out your booty. Is it big? Small? Perky? He likes to size everything up to see how your boob to butt ratio is. Are you more top heavy than bottom heavy? Flat chested with a wide load? Or maybe you hold that perfect hourglass figure. Regardless, a man likes to check it out to see what you have going on.
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things you need to know about Hot Yoga

Performed in studios heated to 40C, it is the trendy yoga designed to open your pores – and your purse.
But a study has found that hot yoga, also known as Bikram yoga, is no better for you than doing it at room temperature.
things you need to know about Hot/Bikram Yoga:
1. The practice, which was developed in the 1960s, is popular with sports stars David Beckham and Andy Murray, as well as actresses Demi Moore and Anne Hathaway.
2. Yoga practitioners claim the heat causes blood vessels to dilate, lowering blood pressure, which could protect against heart attacks and strokes.
 This may also delay hardening of the arteries, which leads to heart attack or stroke. Some also claim that the heat can help to burn calories faster.
4. However, an experiment by Texas State University examining the blood vessels of those doing hot yoga and normal yoga found no difference in function.
5. Instead, it is the yoga postures which are responsible for better health and not the temperature.
6. The study, published in the journal Experimental Physiology, found that it is the exercise forces the lining of blood vessels to dilate, and so and so the benefits are the same with traditional yoga.
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Women rate the strongest men as the most attractive

Women, when asked in a study to judge photos of men’s bodies, rated the strongest men as the most attractive. Height and leanness were appealing attributes, too, but strength played an outsize role in the ratings of a man’s torso, per a report published Tuesday in the Proceedings of the Royal Society B.“No one will be surprised by the idea that strong men are more attractive,” said study author Aaron Lukaszewski, an evolutionary psychologist at California State University at Fullerton. “It’s no secret that women like strong, muscular guys.”
There was no nuance to these results, he said. Zero of the 160 women surveyed showed a statistical preference for weaker men.
“That is so obvious, people are going to wonder why scientists needed to study it,” said Holly Dunsworth, an anthropologist at the University of Rhode Island who was not involved in the research. “And the answer would be because they want to know how these preferences evolved.”
Lukaszewski and his co-authors created a photo database of shirtless or tanktop-wearing male college students, all from the University of California at Santa Barbara. The men’s heads were digitally obscured. Dunsworth described the overall effect as “faceless, soulless blockheads” above naked torsos. “It’s nice to see evolutionary psychology treating everybody like pieces of meat,” she said, ” not just women.”
Sixty of the shirtless men were recruited from the university gym; 130 were students enrolled in psychology courses. The researchers quantified the students’ physical abilities via weightlifting machines, grip strength tests and other measures.
The raters were students in their teens or early 20s enrolled at Oklahoma State University and Australia’s Griffith University. Men and women were asked to judge how attractive or strong they thought the men were, on a scale of 1 to 7. It turns out we are good at guessing a stranger’s strength. Perceptions of strength closely aligned with the men’s actual strength.
The researchers also discovered a linear relationship between a man’s rated strength and his attractiveness. “What really explains the lion’s share in attractiveness is how strong a man looks,” Lukaszewski said.
The study authors described a strong body as a signal, one our ancient ancestors would have understood: This is a healthy individual with a hearty immune system, the ripped body suggests, someone who can devote calories to building muscle rather than fighting off germs. Strength was also an “indicator of one’s ability to provide material and social benefits,” Lukaszewski said. In this interpretation, a strong man has value as a potential protector of women and children and is desired by other men as an ally.
Some evolutionary psychologists suggest there is an optimal peak for male strength, beyond which hulkish, muscle-bound men cease to be attractive. That trend did not appear in this study. Lukaszewski said this concept is based on psychological evaluations using line drawings of cartoonishly muscled men. Although the student database included chiselled “frat guy” types, as he put it, none of the men reached the exaggerated proportions previously reported to be unpleasant.
Dunsworth said that despite the study’s straightforward methods, she did not find the authors’ evolutionary explanations in the paper convincing. “They made no link between any of those responses of those women to any sort of ancient, deep-seated evolutionary traits,” she said.
She pointed out that the results might not be universal. The raters were college-age women evaluating the appearance of college-age men. They might not “have much of an experience with what attractiveness means,” Dunsworth said. The study authors also acknowledged that physical attraction to someone’s body, after all, is only one set of cues we use when appraising partners.
“It’s my opinion that the authors are too quick to ascribe a causal role to evolution,” said Lisa Wade, a sociologist at Occidental College in Los Angeles. “It’s nothing unique to them. Much of this type of research has the same methodological problems.”
Instead, she says that culture, not evolutionary history, has the stronger influence over what is physically desirable. “We value tall, lean men with strong upper bodies in American society,” she said. “We’re too quick to assume that it requires an evolutionary explanation.” Shredded abs, she said, are more for show than any practical function.
“We know what kind of bodies are valorized and idealized,” Wade said. “It tends to be the bodies that are the most difficult to obtain.” If researchers had performed this experiment a century ago, when calories were scarcer and manual labor was not, heavier torsos would have been rated more highly than lean ones. Leanness, she said, was not universally valued across cultures and time.
Lukaszewski says his team plans to examine physical attractiveness around the globe. “We have a cross-cultural study that’s underway right now,” he said, one that included more than a dozen sites around the world.
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This is why South African schoolgirls say 'yes' to sex with sugar daddies



An image from an animated film called "Sara: The Trap," produced by UNICEF and designed to teach young girls in Africa about sexual exploitation by older men, or "sugar daddies."
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Courtesy UNICEF


This story is part of a year-long series, School Year: Learning, Poverty, and Success in a South African Township.

Sima (not her real name) lives in a small, dilapidated house in a sprawling township on the outskirts of Cape Town, South Africa. Most nights, she and her siblings go to bed hungry.
“We don’t have food at home,” she said. “We just drink water and go to sleep.”
Her mother works part-time as a cleaner. Her father is unemployed. Her parents fight all the time.
“I wish I could just go away — not be with them while they are fighting,” she said.
A few months ago, while visiting her older sister who lives a few blocks away, Sima was washing clothes near the road. A man approached her. She thought he looked stylish and interesting.
She gave the man her phone number. He called her that night. The next thing Sima knew, they were dating.
Sima didn’t know the man’s age, but she guessed he was in his mid-twenties. Sima is sixteen.
Students warned of the risksAccording to health experts, sexual relations between older men and younger women have been a significant driver of the AIDS epidemic in Africa. These relationships, common in many areas, have enabled HIV to move quickly from one generation to the next.
In fact, studies have shown that the rate of HIV among school-aged girls in South Africa is nearly three times higher than among school-aged boys. The reason for the gap, South Africa’s minister of health said last year, is "sugar daddies" — older men who have sex with much younger women.
Like many schools in Africa, the Centre of Science and Technology (COSAT) — a public high school near Cape Town — cautions girls about these relationships. In a recent class at COSAT, students discussed the dangers.
“You don’t expect to be the only one in [a relationship with] that sugar daddy,” said Sihle, a junior. “There can be, like, five of you [with] that same guy.”
But while some girls focused on the risks of dating older men, others spoke about the benefits.“Sometimes it’s nice to have a sugar daddy, because you live a fancy life, you wear posh clothes, and people will notice you,” said Zethu, a junior.
When the class ended, I spoke with the teacher, Zoe Bikwana. She said she often has a hard time convincing girls to end relationships with older men.
“It really gets difficult to get through to young people, to stop [dating older men],” she said.
After years of counseling students, Ms. Bikwana has come to a rather chilling realization — that most girls know what they’re getting themselves into.
“They do see the risks,” she said. “But they’re prepared to take them.”
A teacher intervenesSima, the sixteen-year-old who recently got involved with an older man, is a case in point. She was a junior at COSAT and she had been warned of the risks. Yet she started spending a lot of time with the man.
Sima could tell that some people judged her harshly. They would stare at her and make snide remarks.
“Sometimes you just wish you could put the person who is judging you into your shoes [to] feel how hard your shoes are,” Sima said.
After all, she said, the older man was giving her love and support — unlike her father. For her, the relationship meant food, clothes, and a comfortable place to stay.
But the relationship interfered with other aspects of her life. Sima began missing school. It was then that Ms. Bikwana, the teacher from COSAT, stepped in. She arranged to give Sima some money, thinking that might pull her out of the relationship.
“She got support from school, she was given groceries at some point,” Ms. Bikwana said.
But it didn’t work. Sima stopped showing up for classes altogether. Eventually, she was expelled.
Ms. Bikwana said she felt like she had done everything she could. “[It] really saddens me as an educator, because I feel that I cannot do anything,” she said.
Starting overMeanwhile, Sima said she had fallen in love with the man. She felt she was finally enjoying life. But then, the man called her and delivered some unexpected news. He was moving.
“He told me that, the next day, he is going to Pretoria, and he has the tickets and everything,” Sima said. “I was so shocked.”
She confronted him.
“I asked, ‘How could you do that? Are you just now leaving me just like that? Just going away and leaving me with all the loneliness?’” she said.
The man didn’t say much. He was sorry. He would call her.
Sima was devastated. She had to move in with her parents again.
“It’s back to that normal life, that old life, and I don’t want to go back there,” she said.
Sima is now trying to pull her life back together. She is hoping to re-enroll in school this year. She thinks she should probably avoid relationships for a while.
But she said, honestly, if she is approached by an older man again, she is not sure what she’ll do.
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